Straight-up, y’all. The patriarchy is some bull. Yes, I know. As a man, albeit a Black one, I benefit from male-dominated fields and such. That said, I don’t want someone to think I know what everyone needs to know just because of who I identify as. Pop R&B song “Ain’t That Kinda Girl” from Wallis and Destiny Lotus speaks on what women may want (spoiler: it’s not exactly what some men think it is). You can’t buy love or true affection, plain and simple. If you want a great R&B/rap song about being the own queen of your destiny, check it out below and support dope music in all its forms.