Wanting your ex to be happy–but also realizing that they’re downgrading–is a story as old as time itself. We’ve all been there. I try not to go there because, even though I know I’m awesome, I also know I’m a piece of work in some ways; I’m not the easiest person to love sometimes.

Anywho, before this devolves into a post about my romantic life, Asha Kelis is making her SOTBMusic debut with “She Ain’t Me.” A playful, sexy track about being the better woman and the one who deserves better from her ex, “Me” is one that could get play in the club as well as the radio. It’s fun, it’s sonically pleasing and it’s a bad [chick] anthem for those who’ve been hurt in the past. Check it out below and support dope music in all its forms.